Online Store5 Secrets of the Female Mind
1. She Wants to be Emotionally Swept Away, Not Just Impressed
You thought you brought your A game by bragging about all the cool things and how much money you make and shes says, “lets just be friends.” Confused? You must of hit everything on her list of what her future husband should have, but you missed out on the most important thing. She wants a man who affects her emotionally. Men see words and definitions. Women see emotion and empathy. To win her, you must get inside her head and open her feelings to who you are through detailed storytelling.
2. She Relies on You to Make Her Feel Comfortable
A woman will stay clear from any awkward situation. The comfort you have yourself has absolute effect on her own. You must have comfort with her if you wish to win her over mentally, emotionally, and physically. Keep the conversation light at first and avoid topics of huge plans for the future as they may make her uncomfortable.
3. Dont Argue, Its Pointless. Often She Doesnt Even Know Why Shes Feeling Emotional
Ever try to argue with a woman only to become increasingly frustrated because she just didnt get your logical arguments? When a woman is upset, she is not thinking logically and therefore what she says may not make sense and probably wont even be close to whats really bothering her. When a woman is upset, she wants one thing ” reassurance. She relies on you for that reassurance. So, give her a hug that says Im here for you and youre not alone and make her feel safe. When she begins to calm down, then you can discuss the point at hand. Its usually a good idea to ask her about her day or anything else thats going on with her so that you can get to the root of whats bugging her.
4. She Is Just As (If Not More) Sexual Than You Are. Its Just Compartmentalized
Yes guys, the good news: Women love sex. But there is one key difference between women and men when it comes to that and its not what you think. Women are a bit more sexually and emotionally complex than we are and as such, their sexuality is experienced differently. It doesnt take as much to stimulate men. Women, on the other hand, compartmentalize their sexual thinking. She keeps it in one particular place in her mind which is locked away until the right time or the right key comes along. If you bear the key that unlocks that place, the floodgates open and youre the one with whom she shares her most intimate thoughts, feelings, and desires.
5. She Expects You to Respect Her and You Better Respect Yourself First
This is especially true if, and as, you become the man she allows into that place of intimacy and sexuality. Respect is what will allow her to be comfortable enough and develop enough trust to open up to you. Respect in this sense means a few key things: It means that you allow her to be her without trying to control her and that will show her that first and foremost you respect yourself. It means having integrity and doing what you say you will do when you say you will do it. She wants to rely on you and she can only do that if she knows you will respect her.
