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I am no mental health expert nor a psychiatrist nor a psychologist, but I have a bit knowledge about self esteem, on how to get it and how to maintain it. I can tell you this woman is going to be fine, because she figured it out.
She was at a party where malt beverages and central nervous system depressants were being passed around like some candy when she was first attacked. And that’s a novice mistake, and it really frequently happens.
The second time occurred in an office building where she was working late. And that’s another prevalent crook scenario. She was not prepared and protected in both cases, not physically strong either to fight back her opponent.
These are very common incidents. Women are mostly not as physically strong as men, but they can still defeat a man, even the strongest man, if you have guts and the right tools.
The second attack was the worst. It left her a mess, nobody found her attacker, not even the police, according to their report. And with her admission she barely was able to handle it. Then by good chance, she heard a radio show where the theme of conversation was How To Protect Yourself!
The woman on the show had also been attacked, and she was telling the audience how to prevent this kind of thing from happening. The number one piece of advice was:
Gear up! And the second advice was: Have a plan!
Some people are really just born with wisdom.
Our girl did both. As soon as she received her tools, she started carrying all the time. She started lifting her head when she walked, and she became much more aware of her surroundings. Her self-confidence grew rapidly, and the fog of her depression began to lift.
In her mind, she was clear about just exactly how she would handle an attacker. Not only was she clear on the steps she would take, she was clear on what the alternatives would be if she were to be blocked in any way.
Our girl is now walking tall and feeling good, and she is carrying to boot.
