Online StoreThe Reasons Behind Break-Ups
Did you ever hear that line “Nice guys finish last?” Well, there’s a little truth to that statement. Many women aren’t as self assured as they could be and any women who is a little insecure will sometimes wonder why a really great guy would want her. So, if you seem to be head over heals in love with her, she’ll wonder what’s wrong with you.
Does every female have that view? Nope, of course not! Many women have the self assurance to know what they want in a man and they’ll expect to be treated well or they’ll get out of the relationship. But Many women subscribe to the “grass is always greener” mentality. The man of their dreams could be the next one they meet.
What happens when a lady ends the relationship for no reason? The number one rule is NO CONTACT, not by phone, email, or in person. Blinded by her own selfishness, she was unable to see what you had to offer.
Don’t behave like your world has ended, go out and have a real life. Get out of the house and even date a little. When you start dating, you may be lucky enough to find a woman who is confident enough in herself to appreciate all that you have to offer her.
What you really need to ask yourself is whether you want to be involved on that level with a person who is so insecure. Think about it? Is she really worth it? If you think she’s the perfect one for you, give her the time and space to catch up. It is never impossible to mend a relationship, as long as the trust remains.
It’s fairly likely that she’ll call you if you haven’t called her in awhile. Be friendly, but aloof. Don’t share much about your life. And don’t ask a lot about hers. And cut the call short. The idea is to give her time to realize that you ARE the man of her dreams.
In short, she needs to prove herself as an appropriate girlfriend or lover. Let HER be the one doing the chasing, not the opposite. If you finally catch her, be mysterious. Keep in mind, she may be uncertain how to respond to a decent guy, so don’t overwhelm her.
Did you hear me tell you to mistreat her? No way! Just stay a little more independent of her this time. If salvaging your relationship is what you want, here are the steps that may help restore your happiness.
