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There are lots of things people have to do every day and for most of the time things like family, friends and even ourselves a lot of the time will take second place. At times we find out too late that these are the most important and, and then there are times we don’t realize this at all, so find ourselves wondering what is making us so unhappy. And so we are charged with the responsibility to never give in to stress and to continue struggling for the happiness of living.
Let us not forget also that mismanaging time can produce tremendous health problems, both at the physical and mental level. But as always, there is good news- time can be domesticated and we can make it, in some ways obey us. The first thing to do, if we are going to accomplish this is to find the elements that take up your time and normally, they are divided into two groups:
The extrinsic elements - These are mostly the result by events and problems outside of our control but still require to be attended too.
The intimate components - These are strictly related to our weaknesses which include priorities and targets that can change, and the lack of a daily working plan and self imposed deadlines, the tendency to take care of too many things at the same time and the inability to say no.
By now you’ve probably recalled situations like this have arisen but all you have to do is to find a way to defeat and eliminate them, so that you can be in charge your time. Here are three possible ways in which you can do that:
Get accustomed to penning anything down -This is helpful and really if you have a bad memory. If not, there’s a possibility you could forget to make that important meeting to make important phone calls, to answer messages that your promised to return. You can also make note of good ideas and inspirations that occur to you at unusual times.
Ready your priorities - It doesn’t take much time to draw it and you could even get it done while you drink your morning coffee. Write the things that need done that day, depending on how important they are.
Learn to speak up - A huge mistake that a lot of us make is that we put other people’s problems as more important than our own. But by helping them at a bad time in our lives we creating an opening for frustration as well as stress and we find that we can’t finish anything we start.
